When the wave of Coronavirus drowned most of the world in uncertainty, we all had shut the doors of our home and quarantine inside the home. All the corona warriors and all the people are fighting with the deadly virus in different ways. Relationships has been effected very much during COVID-19.
People are facing different problems nowadays in their relationship as they are stucked at home and not going out in unlock also because they are scared of this deadly virus. Couples far from each other are facing disturbance in their relationship as we can feel better and understand better each other when we meet on regular basis. They want to meet each other but they can’t as they also want them and their partner to stay safe and we can only stay safe by staying at home. This distance is making their relationship troublesome. There is another aspect of long distance relationship that they are always connected with the digital media platforms like video calls, calls, messages and many more things. They are understanding the situation and connecting with each other by staying at home and making their bond more powerful than before. Their bond getting more powerful and according to a research 66% relationship has strengthen, only 8% relationship has weekend and there is no impact on 26% relationships.
27% people started dating in lockdown, 29%tied the knot recently and 44% got married. 13% couple stays together during lockdown to spend some time with each other. More than 41% couple spent time together more than 20 hours. Living couple together makes their bond strong and trustful. They are doing many new things together like getting new skills of making good food, doing exercise for their healthy body, making videos, entertaining people, spending lovable time and knowing each other at their best. On the other hand their are also many cases of divorce between couples. Some are getting irritated by staying together. In china’s Shaanxis province when the office reopen then they found 32 million cases of divorce. A women tweets that ‘ the first thing I want after pandemic is divorce’. In China divorce case are very high this time. While couples are staying at home together but every time they get irritated from each other creates distance between them. Domestic violence cases has increased too much durimh lockdown. Women felt insecure by staying at their home only. Schools, colleges and office are closed so there is a new change of homeschooling and work from home which is very beneficial but also created disruption in family. House work and the work of office clashes and troubles sometime. Doing work at home or studying at home is not so much suitable as their is problems relating noice, children, neighbors, etc. Financial crisis also disturbs the relationship.
Getting in relation with someone new is risky at this time as we are not able to meet and get to know the reality of any one. So it is not good to get new relations with unknowns. Online dating can be fake like there is many methods where anyone can make fake profile and do illegal things. Even many people hide their relationship status on social media for not facing unwanted opinions and judgments. Many people don’t like anyone giving them any advice or judge them on the basis of their pictures. Another reason for keeping relationship secret are noosy relatives.
Not only the relationship between couples, relationship between family members has also effected too. Family members staying together, getting to know more about each other, making their relation strong, they are understanding each other better and getting much about them. There is not only positive effect on family relation but negative also. There are also some clashes happening in family which is not good for the people living together. This time relation between friends has increased as they got more time to talk via social media platforms. People also learn to stay happy alone as they learn their importance and the value of time.
So relationship had effected too much at the time of Covid19. Huge changes had come in the life of people which will be good in the future when the things get recoverd.
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